I Believe That The Words That (S)He Told You Are Not Your Grave

I didn’t initiate this process. I know it’s the right move, now. But at the time, it was not my decision that set us down this path. I want to believe I would have gotten there on my own – given enough time and work in therapy I would have seen the eventual truth asContinue reading “I Believe That The Words That (S)He Told You Are Not Your Grave”

I Believe That Tomorrow Is Stronger Than Yesterday

At the start of the year, my partner of 14 years asked for a divorce. It was terrible. No-one “did” anything wrong. There was no infidelity, no abuse, no substance issues. We just didn’t work romantically anymore – maybe ever. I sat in my living room asking, ok. Now what? Seriously – what? It’s notContinue reading “I Believe That Tomorrow Is Stronger Than Yesterday”